How to Break Up With Your Partner And Not Seem Like A Jerk

Since I began this blog, I've heard many horror stories of how people have broken up with a significant other, or have been dumped themselves. For example, readers have relayed experiences of having been dumped via a note or on their anniversary.

Unbelievable!

So, I have posted the following video which gives excellent advice  on how to end a relationship.

The video is by Donna Barnes with www.ehow.com. She is one of my favorite life coaches because her advice is straightforward and practical, yet compassionate. 

Now in her video, Donna is addressing her message specifically to men, but her advice is applicable to women as well:

In your opinion, what is the best way to handle breaking up with someone? Please share your thoughts with the community by commenting below.

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Comments

[Tina T]

There is a delicate line between not being a jerk when breaking up, yet being very clear that you are indeed calling it quits. I think that it's best to think of it like pulling of a bandaid--quick and firm, dragging it out just makes it hurt more. Love the video, I hadn't heard of Donna before, she's great.

[Terez]

Tina, I like your bandaid analogy!

When breaking up with someone, it's vital to be direct and firm. However, as Donna states in her video, also consider the other person's feelings and be as gentle as possible.