Feeling Like Your Relationship Is In A Rut? Then Let The Sun In!

Photo credit: Michael HodgeThe Rainfalls Of Life

Don't you love the smell of fresh, crisp air? Especially in the mornings? 

My favorite way to enjoy it is by taking brief walks around my neighborhood.

When out for a walk the other day, I couldn't help but notice the affects of all the heavy Autumn rains.

The sky has been painted with shades of gray.  Most notably, the sidewalks and streets are littered with the remains of once vibrant Fall leaves, overcome by the wind and rain.

Deep in thought, my mind pondered as to how often we allow the rainfalls of life to overcast the sunlight of joy in our relationships?

My guess is, much too often.

We "adults" tend to take ourselves too seriously.  We allow the cares and pressures of life: bills, work, running a household, etc., to suck the humor and laughter right out of our relationships.

So, if you are feeling as though you and your partner have been in a rut lately, my advice is to let the sun in!

Make it a point of finding your smile again - it misses you!  My firm opinion is we drastically underestimate the healing power laughter brings.

Finding The Sunshine

So Mr and Mrs Serious, here are just a few fun suggestions that will help you re-discover your joy:

• Start a pillow fight
• Watch a favorite comedy film, or standup concert together
• Pull out old high school year books or photo albums, then take a walk down memory lane
• If you have young children, watch them at play. Children's laughter is infectious
• Play a game of twister
• Turn on the radio, and shake your money-makers!
• Have a watergun fight
• Log onto sites like Flickr or YouTube to enjoy humorous photos and videos

Concluding Thought

Hopefully, these ideas will convince you how important joy is to the health of your relationship.  So go find the fun, and experience the healing warmth the sunshine of laughter brings.

When was the last time you and your partner enjoyed a good, hearty laugh together? Please share your experiences with us by commenting below.

RELATED POSTS

Massage: How This Sensual Art Can Lead To Greater Intimacy

7 Romantic & Fun Date Night Ideas Under $100!

If you found this message valuable, please share it with others.

Comments

[Karen Kay]

Thank you Terez! Beautiful thoughts and a beautiful picture!

I'm with ya! Let's boogie!

(but you'll not catch me playing Twister - no way, no how!.... lol)

[Terez]

LOL! You're on Karen! :-) I'm glad you enjoyed the article and I hope you become a regular reader! Unfortunately, I can't take credit for the picture (although it is beautiful isn't it?). A gentlemen by the name of Michael Hodge is responsible for that gorgeous photograph.